Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

The forum that sees the most traffic
Post Reply
Derek
15lb curler
Posts: 601
Joined: Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:51 am

Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by Derek »

How true is this? In my experience, it's false 75% of the time. Sure, there are definitely girls out there who detest guys who are even a little bigger than average, but they are the minority. One thing that really seems to waive the whole "I don't like big guys" attitude is to be lean. Having an adonis belt really helps too.
Work Smart, Work Hard, and Kick Ass.

Skinny twig... Time to bulk up!

User avatar
galapogos
GM, Team Biceps
Posts: 9989
Joined: Tue Jan 13, 2004 2:35 am
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 0
No curling in the: curl rack
Location: In front of my computer
Contact:

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by galapogos »

Which part big you talking about?

Derek
15lb curler
Posts: 601
Joined: Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:51 am

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by Derek »

Body size. Penis size I have heard a well endowed fella (nine inches) comment before that for most Asian girls, anything above seven would be pushing it. But I'd rather be too big than too small. :D
Work Smart, Work Hard, and Kick Ass.

Skinny twig... Time to bulk up!

User avatar
shirl
I love the leg extension machine!
Posts: 181
Joined: Sat Sep 20, 2008 2:23 am
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 0
No curling in the: curl rack
Location: hovering in your sublimed fantasy

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by shirl »

I think there is some truth to it. Big bulky guys are really a turn off. Nicely built with good muscle tone is generally much favoured here. The 'other size' is another matter altogether as it is a self preference I guess.

User avatar
Steph_Parker
Pro and hardcore
Posts: 1446
Joined: Wed Dec 03, 2008 12:12 pm

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by Steph_Parker »

Hmm, it depends on the perception of wot exactly is "big" for different individuals (or girls).
I rarely see really "huge" guys anyway...
Beauty may only be skin deep, but lethal is to the bone.

Derek
15lb curler
Posts: 601
Joined: Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:51 am

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by Derek »

During my second session yesterday evening I saw a national level bodybuilder training - damn he was big; I completely forgot how big bodybuilders could be. I know he competes on the national level at either the 75kg or 80kg category. Small legs for his size though.

Ah, penis size, always a 'sensitive' topic.
Work Smart, Work Hard, and Kick Ass.

Skinny twig... Time to bulk up!

fishbuff
I'll just hit the stairmaster
Posts: 34
Joined: Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:44 am
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 3
No curling in the: curl rack

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by fishbuff »

come to australia.. girls here love big muscular men...

User avatar
lips
CEO, Team Biceps
Posts: 1288
Joined: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:33 pm

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by lips »

the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo
Score Fitness with Kevin.
http://kevinchia.sg/

fishbuff
I'll just hit the stairmaster
Posts: 34
Joined: Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:44 am
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 3
No curling in the: curl rack

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by fishbuff »

lips wrote:the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo
well, it does surprise me that 1.6m people talk about "big" and clothing problems.

im 185cm 120kg and i can find my clothing easily in oz. i have 3 colleagues that stand over 190 and 200m tall.

User avatar
lips
CEO, Team Biceps
Posts: 1288
Joined: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:33 pm

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by lips »

fishbuff wrote:
lips wrote:the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo
well, it does surprise me that 1.6m people talk about "big" and clothing problems.

im 185cm 120kg and i can find my clothing easily in oz. i have 3 colleagues that stand over 190 and 200m tall.
I can understand when we have different idea of fashion, living principles etc.

There's no need for all people to live your kind of life. Just enjoy the different kind of people.

Now, i know i am small to you, but i am big to myself. If anyone were to sponsor me $1-2k monthly for me to eat more, to change my wardrobe, condition is to gain to 80 or 85kg at 12% BF, i am more glad to do that.

Though i have not reach this level before, i can do it with money.

You know why you quit SG and get out of here. You can, i can't. GG.
Score Fitness with Kevin.
http://kevinchia.sg/

User avatar
vicvic
Pro and hardcore
Posts: 1664
Joined: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:52 pm
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 0
No curling in the: curl rack
Location: Singapore

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by vicvic »

that depends on the niche of girls you want to attract.

if the kinda girl you like is soft and rather stays indoors lying on the sofa, eating pringles and watching gossip girls, she prolly doesn't like bulky guys.

on the other hand, if you want a rock chick that shoves people out of the way to get the best spot in a mosh pit and has no issues flashing her assets to Metallica (stereotype here, hehe), well she'll prolly like guys who look like gladiators.

you can't have EVERYTHING.

Derek
15lb curler
Posts: 601
Joined: Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:51 am

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by Derek »

fishbuff wrote:
lips wrote:the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo
well, it does surprise me that 1.6m people talk about "big" and clothing problems.

im 185cm 120kg and i can find my clothing easily in oz. i have 3 colleagues that stand over 190 and 200m tall.
you guys are huge motherfu*kers.
vicvic wrote:that depends on the niche of girls you want to attract.

if the kinda girl you like is soft and rather stays indoors lying on the sofa, eating pringles and watching gossip girls, she prolly doesn't like bulky guys.

on the other hand, if you want a rock chick that shoves people out of the way to get the best spot in a mosh pit and has no issues flashing her assets to Metallica (stereotype here, hehe), well she'll prolly like guys who look like gladiators.

you can't have EVERYTHING.
I think this generalisation really depends. I've seen 'soft' girls with muscular guys and 'soft' guys with lean & hard women. That said I never listen to a girl who tells me I'll look better smaller. Leaner yes, but not smaller. :)
Work Smart, Work Hard, and Kick Ass.

Skinny twig... Time to bulk up!

User avatar
vicvic
Pro and hardcore
Posts: 1664
Joined: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:52 pm
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 0
No curling in the: curl rack
Location: Singapore

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by vicvic »

nothing's absolute man.

nakorius
Fat Bastard
Posts: 1806
Joined: Thu Sep 25, 2008 5:40 pm
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 0
No curling in the: curl rack

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by nakorius »

Derek wrote: I think this generalisation really depends. I've seen 'soft' girls with muscular guys and 'soft' guys with lean & hard women. That said I never listen to a girl who tells me I'll look better smaller. Leaner yes, but not smaller. :)
That's their way of telling you that you look better, smaller. :oops: :twisted:
Nothing posted by this fat bastard should be taken seriously. SOME are for entertainment purposes only.

User avatar
vicvic
Pro and hardcore
Posts: 1664
Joined: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:52 pm
Enter the middle number in the list(3): 0
No curling in the: curl rack
Location: Singapore

Re: Girls Don't Like Guys Who Are Too Big

Post by vicvic »

well, ultimately it's your vibe that counts.

check this out

Post Reply