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for the young guys

Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 9:15 pm
by h
i'm sure you all don't really need me telling you shit but...

http://elitefts.com/documents/seven_suc ... habits.htm

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 12:20 am
by kacie
this does not necessarily apply to young kids only. its a good article imo.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 8:54 am
by alex
Work in the construction industry here, you would get some sort of perjorative remarks regarding being a banagla or smth. :roll:

I have done some light labour before(shifting stuff, metal barriers etc), some paid well, some are really just out there to exploit your status as a student.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:10 am
by Sufian
throughout my time in JC, I worked as a guitar sessionist at Hard Rock Cafe. Throughout my time in NUS, I worked part time doing delivery for the fast food restaurants (canadian pizza, McDonalds, KFC, Pizza Hut). And throughout all these times, I still gave tuition whenever I can sneak in a few hours of free time here and there. Other than that it is all study and sports. I was a sporty nerd.

There were times in NUS that I had to deliver the pizzas to NUS, to the Forum. Well, I was a year 3 that time, and the ones who ordered were my intake students, who were there for a Malay committee meeting or something like that. Imagine all of them ( about 40 plus of them), looking at me trying hard to balance 7 large pizzas to bring to them. They recognised me, and some of them started sniggering and taunting me. Saying things like how come NUS student need to do this? Cannot do other things? Well, my answer to them, I can still remember to this day is, "Unlike u people, I stopped taking pocket money from my parents eversince I turned 17. And, even if i do, I would not be spending money on pizza. I would rather eat prata with egg, only $1.10. So that the rest of the money I can save to pay off the school bills and hp bills."

Thus, until this day, u will never see me talk shit about low piad jobs and stuffs. I have tried them all before. I was part timing as a cleaner for a semi con factory for a month when I was in Sec 4, albeit during the schoolholidays. I know how it feels like to be paid $3 per hour, in which every hour is a tiring one. That is why, I would like to tell the boys who are having it good right now, with the parents being so supportive financially, and with maids in tow to clean up for u, start thinking about being independent. Or at least, start caring where the hard-earned money that your parents make are being blown to.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:35 am
by galapogos
Well I never really did part time until I hit college. However I still do know the value of money. I only spend it on food and some other fitness related "luxury" items(supps, equipment, gym membership, etc), and I still save almost half my take home pay every month. I know people who already know how they wanna spend their entire next 2 paychecks...boggles my mind.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:39 am
by AhBen
Sufian wrote:
Thus, until this day, u will never see me talk shit about low piad jobs and stuffs. I have tried them all before. I was part timing as a cleaner for a semi con factory for a month when I was in Sec 4, albeit during the schoolholidays. I know how it feels like to be paid $3 per hour, in which every hour is a tiring one. That is why, I would like to tell the boys who are having it good right now, with the parents being so supportive financially, and with maids in tow to clean up for u, start thinking about being independent. Or at least, start caring where the hard-earned money that your parents make are being blown to.
Gee,my lowest paid job was $3.50 as office boy.

Anyway,that is great advice for the boys who have maids in tow to clean up for them,but whether they listen to it is another matter altogether. :D

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:39 am
by alex
My pocket money comes from cleaning the house, doing household chores and running some errands. :lol:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:42 am
by AhBen
alex wrote:My pocket money comes from cleaning the house, doing household chores and running some errands. :lol:
Seriously,kids should learn to be more like you doing such work and appreciating how hard it is to earn money...instead of having 1.75kg of meat given to them on a platter daily.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:46 am
by alex
My cooking skills still suck though, but the only cooking apparatus i have at home is a microwave(unhealthy if used for every meal), toaster oven and a spoilt baking oven. :lol:

I can only cook simple things like

2 slices thick gardenia bread, butter both sides of each bread.

Put one piece of ham on each slice of bread.Put cheese inbetween the slices of ham and Put cheese on top of the sandwich.

When done toasting the sandwich, add whatever vegetables you fancy and whatever sauce.

The other one is

Microwaved scrambled eggs(Once in a while)

2 eggs beaten in a casserole pot,(whatever the hell its called),salt to taste, mix in milk, cover the lid and microwave on medium high for 2 mins.Once done, stir thru the egg and 'scramble' it.Then sprinkle some pepper.Can add in shredded cheese to the cooking process if you want.

Nothing compared to kacie.



:lol:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 10:03 am
by KEVIN LIM
- 16 Yrs Old immediately after O levels, work at KTV lounge for about 3 months as waiter because 2 days no makan already. Have to worry about my next meal cos parents divorce and no pocket money. Mostly roaming the streets and billard saloons.

- after that between 16-18 yrs old alot of odd jobs, construction worker, making coffee at tanglin halt 16th floor, work at zhi char stall helping to slaughter fish, crab, prepare food (sibei fun).

- 18 yrs old, sign on Air Force cos sibei jialat roaming the streets always no money, no security and sometimes no food.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 11:00 am
by alex
From all these to a business owner, not too bad. :mrgreen:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 11:09 am
by KEVIN LIM
alex wrote:From all these to a business owner, not too bad. :mrgreen:
My past has really helped me alot in keeping my humility in check and keeping it real ....say say say hard gayz neh :dance:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 12:45 pm
by lips
Wah seh, why from tips for young people till working history.

I always have a good life even though my family is not well to do. I have a very nice father who provide for the family.

First job is $4/hr at coffeebean but i worked only for 4 days because i'm not sociable enough for the job.

Then no work till JC finishes. Flunk.

Went NS.

ORD.

Worked 3 months, $7/HR, OT $10.50/hr/sat $14/hr/sun.

Went Poly.

Started part time as HP promoter, $7/hr.
Started personal training.
Started salon with 1 of my client.
Started my full time job.

HUAT AH, more biz to come!

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 2:09 pm
by Ryan.carpediem
I once worked as a flyer distributor for a scammer in Sim Lim square during Expo 2005. $15 for the whole day(11hrs). those from HP and the other companies were earning $6/hr.

Another time, I worked as a block flyer distrubutor for a tuition centre. $10 per 3 block or something. I took 3-4 hrs to earn this $10.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 2:11 pm
by alex
On a different note, sometimes i am more sceptical of some people who claim that they are not well to do.Yet, every month i see a new and fairly expensive item on them and they are on financial assitance also.What gives?

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 2:19 pm
by M.Hunter
alex wrote:On a different note, sometimes i am more sceptical of some people who claim that they are not well to do.Yet, every month i see a new and fairly expensive item on them and they are on financial assitance also.What gives?
I've seen a lot of people like that. Some even bother to scrimp and save, but for the wrong cause.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 2:48 pm
by lips
Don't say these already, a lot of us are guilty of buying wants, not need.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 3:12 pm
by Steph_Parker
KEVIN LIM wrote:- 16 Yrs Old immediately after O levels, work at KTV lounge for about 3 months as waiter because 2 days no makan already. Have to worry about my next meal cos parents divorce and no pocket money. Mostly roaming the streets and billard saloons.

- after that between 16-18 yrs old alot of odd jobs, construction worker, making coffee at tanglin halt 16th floor, work at zhi char stall helping to slaughter fish, crab, prepare food (sibei fun).

- 18 yrs old, sign on Air Force cos sibei jialat roaming the streets always no money, no security and sometimes no food.
wow, look at you now. :)

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 4:53 pm
by Derek
I guess I'm 'lucky' in that all the jobs I've held, ranging from the mundane (distributing flyers at Raffles Place - I always open my mouth and ask people to take the flyer - Appeared on TV once when a camera crew was doing a news story there) to the average (making phone calls to get people to attend investment courses) to the more intellectually inclined (the manipulation involved in the clockwork behind network marketing), and the more interesting ones (co-running a weekly speed dating event at a restaurant every Friday evening for two years), have taught me many valuable traits. One of the most noteworthy ones would probably be to psycho yourself into loving what you do.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 5:10 pm
by lips
Derek wrote:I guess I'm 'lucky' in that all the jobs I've held, ranging from the mundane (distributing flyers at Raffles Place - I always open my mouth and ask people to take the flyer - Appeared on TV once when a camera crew was doing a news story there) to the average (making phone calls to get people to attend investment courses) to the more intellectually inclined (the manipulation involved in the clockwork behind network marketing), and the more interesting ones (co-running a weekly speed dating event at a restaurant every Friday evening for two years), have taught me many valuable traits. One of the most noteworthy ones would probably be to psycho yourself into loving what you do.
i know you love NS. sign on man!

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 5:37 pm
by KEVIN LIM
Steph_Parker wrote:
KEVIN LIM wrote:- 16 Yrs Old immediately after O levels, work at KTV lounge for about 3 months as waiter because 2 days no makan already. Have to worry about my next meal cos parents divorce and no pocket money. Mostly roaming the streets and billard saloons.

- after that between 16-18 yrs old alot of odd jobs, construction worker, making coffee at tanglin halt 16th floor, work at zhi char stall helping to slaughter fish, crab, prepare food (sibei fun).

- 18 yrs old, sign on Air Force cos sibei jialat roaming the streets always no money, no security and sometimes no food.
wow, look at you now. :)
Really nothing to boast about but I'm so glad I didn't end in jail. Those were real darkand tough times for me man.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 5:46 pm
by alex
kevin lim you pai kia also ar :snakeman:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 5:51 pm
by Derek
lips wrote:
Derek wrote:I guess I'm 'lucky' in that all the jobs I've held, ranging from the mundane (distributing flyers at Raffles Place - I always open my mouth and ask people to take the flyer - Appeared on TV once when a camera crew was doing a news story there) to the average (making phone calls to get people to attend investment courses) to the more intellectually inclined (the manipulation involved in the clockwork behind network marketing), and the more interesting ones (co-running a weekly speed dating event at a restaurant every Friday evening for two years), have taught me many valuable traits. One of the most noteworthy ones would probably be to psycho yourself into loving what you do.
i know you love NS. sign on man!
Sure - If I were a scholar. :)

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 5:53 pm
by Steph_Parker
alex wrote:kevin lim you pai kia also ar :snakeman:
pai kia got different levels too.
ah beng.
mats.
bad boy.
good kind of bad.
bad kind of bad.
etc
and many many more diff categories...

random.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 8:28 pm
by KEVIN LIM
Steph_Parker wrote:
alex wrote:kevin lim you pai kia also ar :snakeman:
pai kia got different levels too.
ah beng.
mats.
bad boy.
good kind of bad.
bad kind of bad.
etc
and many many more diff categories...

random.

Hahaha you damn ace man, thanks for taking that question. And yes I WAS (past tense) one.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:15 pm
by galapogos
KEVIN LIM wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:
alex wrote:kevin lim you pai kia also ar :snakeman:
pai kia got different levels too.
ah beng.
mats.
bad boy.
good kind of bad.
bad kind of bad.
etc
and many many more diff categories...

random.

Hahaha you damn ace man, thanks for taking that question. And yes I WAS (past tense) one.
ya, now you from pai kia upgrade to pai lang.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 11:25 pm
by alex
Kevin zai dui is Kallang stadium :twisted:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 1:16 am
by leetianan
wow, must really salute u.
Sufian wrote:throughout my time in JC, I worked as a guitar sessionist at Hard Rock Cafe. Throughout my time in NUS, I worked part time doing delivery for the fast food restaurants (canadian pizza, McDonalds, KFC, Pizza Hut). And throughout all these times, I still gave tuition whenever I can sneak in a few hours of free time here and there. Other than that it is all study and sports. I was a sporty nerd.

There were times in NUS that I had to deliver the pizzas to NUS, to the Forum. Well, I was a year 3 that time, and the ones who ordered were my intake students, who were there for a Malay committee meeting or something like that. Imagine all of them ( about 40 plus of them), looking at me trying hard to balance 7 large pizzas to bring to them. They recognised me, and some of them started sniggering and taunting me. Saying things like how come NUS student need to do this? Cannot do other things? Well, my answer to them, I can still remember to this day is, "Unlike u people, I stopped taking pocket money from my parents eversince I turned 17. And, even if i do, I would not be spending money on pizza. I would rather eat prata with egg, only $1.10. So that the rest of the money I can save to pay off the school bills and hp bills."

Thus, until this day, u will never see me talk shit about low piad jobs and stuffs. I have tried them all before. I was part timing as a cleaner for a semi con factory for a month when I was in Sec 4, albeit during the schoolholidays. I know how it feels like to be paid $3 per hour, in which every hour is a tiring one. That is why, I would like to tell the boys who are having it good right now, with the parents being so supportive financially, and with maids in tow to clean up for u, start thinking about being independent. Or at least, start caring where the hard-earned money that your parents make are being blown to.

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 1:37 am
by notle
Sufian wrote:throughout my time in JC, I worked as a guitar sessionist at Hard Rock Cafe. Throughout my time in NUS, I worked part time doing delivery for the fast food restaurants (canadian pizza, McDonalds, KFC, Pizza Hut). And throughout all these times, I still gave tuition whenever I can sneak in a few hours of free time here and there. Other than that it is all study and sports. I was a sporty nerd.

There were times in NUS that I had to deliver the pizzas to NUS, to the Forum. Well, I was a year 3 that time, and the ones who ordered were my intake students, who were there for a Malay committee meeting or something like that. Imagine all of them ( about 40 plus of them), looking at me trying hard to balance 7 large pizzas to bring to them. They recognised me, and some of them started sniggering and taunting me. Saying things like how come NUS student need to do this? Cannot do other things? Well, my answer to them, I can still remember to this day is, "Unlike u people, I stopped taking pocket money from my parents eversince I turned 17. And, even if i do, I would not be spending money on pizza. I would rather eat prata with egg, only $1.10. So that the rest of the money I can save to pay off the school bills and hp bills."


Thus, until this day, u will never see me talk shit about low piad jobs and stuffs. I have tried them all before. I was part timing as a cleaner for a semi con factory for a month when I was in Sec 4, albeit during the schoolholidays. I know how it feels like to be paid $3 per hour, in which every hour is a tiring one. That is why, I would like to tell the boys who are having it good right now, with the parents being so supportive financially, and with maids in tow to clean up for u, start thinking about being independent. Or at least, start caring where the hard-earned money that your parents make are being blown to.
really hats off to you.

i got friends who ORD couple of months already still cant get job. too many "conditions"

worst i heard was someone who said :"study so hard till JC earn only 4.50/hr where got worth it?nt enough" :roll:

Its never been an issue of how well off your family is (its always your family, its never you, at our age at least) , but how you spend your money and how you view and appreciate it.

But i don't really blame the kids for spending and thinking the way they do sometimes, from young parents spoil them so it has become the norm for them. Kind of an environment and upbringing thing.

i rmb once i had a rich kid back in sec school, stayed 6th avenue. Was a bubbly guy but i got a huge shock when i heard he nvr eat at hawker centre b4.nth to do with him not wanting to eat at one, just nvr happened. lol, after joining us at one one day he exclaimed how much he liked hokkein mee :lol:

For me i always try and just get a different job each time,experience smth new.done some really weird jobs last time.

hehe i want to try working in the kitchen at LJS and learn how they make those fantastic grill meats! the chicken,fish and salmon all rock. :finga:

Re: for the young guys

Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 1:48 am
by aaron
hahaha simi weird jobs, sell backside ah :supz: