Goi's Fitness Forum

How true is this? In my experience, it's false 75% of the time. Sure, there are definitely girls out there who detest guys who are even a little bigger than average, but they are the minority. One thing that really seems to waive the whole "I don't like big guys" attitude is to be lean. Having an adonis belt really helps too.

Which part big you talking about?

Body size. Penis size I have heard a well endowed fella (nine inches) comment before that for most Asian girls, anything above seven would be pushing it. But I'd rather be too big than too small.

I think there is some truth to it. Big bulky guys are really a turn off. Nicely built with good muscle tone is generally much favoured here. The 'other size' is another matter altogether as it is a self preference I guess.

Hmm, it depends on the perception of wot exactly is "big" for different individuals (or girls).
I rarely see really "huge" guys anyway...

During my second session yesterday evening I saw a national level bodybuilder training - damn he was big; I completely forgot how big bodybuilders could be. I know he competes on the national level at either the 75kg or 80kg category. Small legs for his size though.

Ah, penis size, always a 'sensitive' topic.

come to australia.. girls here love big muscular men...

the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo

lips wrote:the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo

well, it does surprise me that 1.6m people talk about "big" and clothing problems.

im 185cm 120kg and i can find my clothing easily in oz. i have 3 colleagues that stand over 190 and 200m tall.

fishbuff wrote:

lips wrote:the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo

well, it does surprise me that 1.6m people talk about "big" and clothing problems.

im 185cm 120kg and i can find my clothing easily in oz. i have 3 colleagues that stand over 190 and 200m tall.

I can understand when we have different idea of fashion, living principles etc.

There's no need for all people to live your kind of life. Just enjoy the different kind of people.

Now, i know i am small to you, but i am big to myself. If anyone were to sponsor me $1-2k monthly for me to eat more, to change my wardrobe, condition is to gain to 80 or 85kg at 12% BF, i am more glad to do that.

Though i have not reach this level before, i can do it with money.

You know why you quit SG and get out of here. You can, i can't. GG.

that depends on the niche of girls you want to attract.

if the kinda girl you like is soft and rather stays indoors lying on the sofa, eating pringles and watching gossip girls, she prolly doesn't like bulky guys.

on the other hand, if you want a rock chick that shoves people out of the way to get the best spot in a mosh pit and has no issues flashing her assets to Metallica (stereotype here, hehe), well she'll prolly like guys who look like gladiators.

you can't have EVERYTHING.

fishbuff wrote:

lips wrote:the problem of getting bigger.

1) $ in food
2) $ in clothing
3) lesser choice of clothing
4) time

etc etc

worth it in this realistic society?

yeah worth it man. i'm bulking my tummy. gogogo

well, it does surprise me that 1.6m people talk about "big" and clothing problems.

im 185cm 120kg and i can find my clothing easily in oz. i have 3 colleagues that stand over 190 and 200m tall.

you guys are huge motherfu*kers.

vicvic wrote:that depends on the niche of girls you want to attract.

if the kinda girl you like is soft and rather stays indoors lying on the sofa, eating pringles and watching gossip girls, she prolly doesn't like bulky guys.

on the other hand, if you want a rock chick that shoves people out of the way to get the best spot in a mosh pit and has no issues flashing her assets to Metallica (stereotype here, hehe), well she'll prolly like guys who look like gladiators.

you can't have EVERYTHING.

I think this generalisation really depends. I've seen 'soft' girls with muscular guys and 'soft' guys with lean & hard women. That said I never listen to a girl who tells me I'll look better smaller. Leaner yes, but not smaller.

nothing's absolute man.

Derek wrote: I think this generalisation really depends. I've seen 'soft' girls with muscular guys and 'soft' guys with lean & hard women. That said I never listen to a girl who tells me I'll look better smaller. Leaner yes, but not smaller.

That's their way of telling you that you look better, smaller.

well, ultimately it's your vibe that counts.

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