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Without trying to sound too patronising.

Why is it that SOME pretty girls like those guys that are total bums.To elaborate further, the kind that has brushes with the law, mingle with riff- raff, no goals in life and just roam the streets day and night.

alex wrote:Without trying to sound too patronising.

Why is it that SOME pretty girls like those guys that are total bums.To elaborate further, the kind that has brushes with the law, mingle with riff- raff, no goals in life and just roam the streets day and night.

Alex facing issues of love issit? I see a few of similar love issues posts.
Because bad boys or players gives cheap thrill and fun (temporary MAYBE, depends). And I think they tend to be more sensitive and considerate to a girl's feelings. But I want to noe, why does bad boys seems to like good girls more, rather than their own kind. Mmm, cheap thrill too?

haha... girls like bad boys. Thats the fact of life. If its not the case, I would not have been married. Neither would Bryan. Haha

alex wrote:Without trying to sound too patronising.

Why is it that SOME pretty girls like those guys that are total bums.To elaborate further, the kind that has brushes with the law, mingle with riff- raff, no goals in life and just roam the streets day and night.

At your age,gals seem to prefer those Bad Guys...

You seem to be a Nice Guy to me,but you can work towards shedding the negative connotations associated with that persona.

Sufian wrote:haha... girls like bad boys. Thats the fact of life. If its not the case, I would not have been married. Neither would Bryan. Haha

That's why I ish NMNHNLM

love is blind, what to do. WOOHOO

no such thing as good boy or bad boy, is just how fun the guy is.

all people are nice, and all people are bad.

if one is single so far, just not the time yet.

wot is NMNHNLM? Such a long short form.
I self invented this. Girls (not all, applicable to some) likes bad boys but they love good men.

alex wrote:Without trying to sound too patronising.

Why is it that SOME pretty girls like those guys that are total bums.To elaborate further, the kind that has brushes with the law, mingle with riff- raff, no goals in life and just roam the streets day and night.

I think really, a large part of it is about being confident and all...being able to connect with people, being humorous, and perhaps even being well-groomed. Sadly in sg I get the feeling tt girls go for looks/dressing/bad boy personality more than the muscles or figure. This is unlike in US, where according to one of Jon Wong's friends who stayed in Montreal ( i presume US too) if you're asian and jacked and walk into a club- SNAP.

you get laid.

isn't this about love? haha

got link to get laid if you're buff not meh. ahhhaa

Ryan.carpediem wrote:

alex wrote:Without trying to sound too patronising.

Why is it that SOME pretty girls like those guys that are total bums.To elaborate further, the kind that has brushes with the law, mingle with riff- raff, no goals in life and just roam the streets day and night.

I think really, a large part of it is about being confident and all...being able to connect with people, being humorous, and perhaps even being well-groomed. Sadly in sg I get the feeling tt girls go for looks/dressing/bad boy personality more than the muscles or figure. This is unlike in US, where according to one of Jon Wong's friends who stayed in Montreal ( i presume US too) if you're asian and jacked and walk into a club- SNAP.

you get laid.

Having actually stayed in the USA for 6 years, that is totally not true...unless you walk into an AZN club in Chinatown.

And Montreal is in Quebec, Canada.

Ryan.carpediem wrote:This is unlike in US, where according to one of Jon Wong's friends who stayed in Montreal ( i presume US too) if you're asian and jacked and walk into a club- SNAP.

you get laid.

...if he paid, it doesn't count.

Jordon wrote:isn't this about love? haha

got link to get laid if you're buff not meh. ahhhaa

apparently western/caucasians or girls are more superficial and muscles/ physique plays a more important role in attraction. tt is why you will always read surveys/ interviews done where girls apparently favour guys with broad shoulder, well defined abs...tt kind of stuff...of course, I've not been to US so i can't say for myself, but I do suppose the girls over there are far more promiscuous than in singapore.


h: doubt he did. This is guy gives me the impression of being a "player". then again he IS quite good looking, so tt may be another reason, and his upper body is really jacked, like derrick's size.

I stayed in Toronto for 5 months before.
Most gals(mostly Asians,Toronto is like an Asian city) there are friendly and can be easily chatted up.You can just say hi to a jogger on the street and initiate small talk with her.

Here is not so easy-people will probably think you're crazy if you say hi to them on the streets.

well, i don't really care if he did or didn't...

unfortunately, i've had to endure conversations with more than a few people who could only talk about getting laid.
they were the most boring people i've met in my life.

well, maybe that's not all that person talked about...

Ryan.carpediem wrote:

Jordon wrote:isn't this about love? haha

got link to get laid if you're buff not meh. ahhhaa

apparently western/caucasians or girls are more superficial and muscles/ physique plays a more important role in attraction. tt is why you will always read surveys/ interviews done where girls apparently favour guys with broad shoulder, well defined abs...tt kind of stuff...of course, I've not been to US so i can't say for myself, but I do suppose the girls over there are far more promiscuous than in singapore.

h: doubt he did. This is guy gives me the impression of being a "player". then again he IS quite good looking, so tt may be another reason, and his upper body is really jacked, like derrick's size.

1. Clubs are all about superficial, so it's not as if you are looking for love and marriage there. Looks, money (or the illusion of), attitude and beer goggles play a huge part. It isn't about western or asian, everyone is attracted to different things. If I were to blindly generalize, HK and SG girls are much more materialistic and high maintenance to most girls back home, regardless of skin colour.

2. About promiscuity, I'd highly doubt that to be true. If you believe that, I've got some prime Florida real estate for you...

Promiscuous girl
Wherever you are
Im' all alone
And it's you that I want

Promiscuous boy
You already know
That I’m all yours
What you waiting for?

Promiscuous girl
You're teasing me
You know what I want
And I got what you need

Promiscuous boy
Let's get to the point
Cause we're on a roll
Are you ready?

...wtf is that

hahaha its a song la havent you realised, jordon is aspiring singer wannabe LOL.

hahaha yall very funny eh goi act good boy nia sial

eh, i just think well/

Nelly Furtado.

Every other post requires some CanCon

so says the CRTC

that's got to be one of the worst songs ever.

ahh lets play guess the song.

Before the worst, before we met
Before our hearts decided its time to love again
Before too late, before too long
Lets try and take it back before it all went wrong.

name of the song is
"another one of the worst songs ever"

you are bad at guessing!

Sufian wrote:haha... girls like bad boys. Thats the fact of life. If its not the case, I would not have been married. Neither would Bryan. Haha

Wait a min...Wad is this...Putting my name?? Do you know its very rude?? Atrocious behaviour....But i rikes....

But i was the good boy, my wife ish the ah lianz....hahahaa

galapogos wrote:

Ryan.carpediem wrote:

alex wrote:Without trying to sound too patronising.

Why is it that SOME pretty girls like those guys that are total bums.To elaborate further, the kind that has brushes with the law, mingle with riff- raff, no goals in life and just roam the streets day and night.

I think really, a large part of it is about being confident and all...being able to connect with people, being humorous, and perhaps even being well-groomed. Sadly in sg I get the feeling tt girls go for looks/dressing/bad boy personality more than the muscles or figure. This is unlike in US, where according to one of Jon Wong's friends who stayed in Montreal ( i presume US too) if you're asian and jacked and walk into a club- SNAP.

you get laid.

Having actually stayed in the USA for 6 years, that is totally not true...unless you walk into an AZN club in Chinatown.

And Montreal is in Quebec, Canada.

lol u nv show ur muscle...

I tend to adapt to the situation.

Most of the time, i would opt to be reserved and quiet.I dont see the point in exhibiting what bad boy traits.Those are usually kids with napolean syndrome or other similar inferiority complexes.3 of such just got their ass kicked by my friend.

However, this does not exactly mean that i am a nice guy.You are either in my good books or i hate you.Therefore, i treat you accordingly to how i label you.

I can be extremely belligerent or an even bigger asshole than a bad boy if the situation calls for it.Show your bad side at the correct time.

eh haha, bad boys doesn't mean they are criminals/shitheads mah, they might be nice people if you know them well, they just, appear like this. most of the time they're very friendly and nice.

well if you tried asking enough people, eventually you'd a yes from someone =)