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Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:19 pm
by vicvic
manyu882 wrote: eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
date all of them. you're not in a relationship. no commitment. just be honest. competition doesn't mean it's bad, shows that you're popular and in demand. the girls will have to pull up their socks to get your attention, right?

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:20 pm
by Twxian
wah this thread moving very fast....+1

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:20 pm
by Steph_Parker
manyu882 wrote:
Weib wrote:first things first, get to know her.. if step one don't go through don't think about the rest.

Step 2, if fail find another target, if success then continue to build relationship.
eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
then u can just test the waters.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:21 pm
by Weib
flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:22 pm
by Steph_Parker
Weib wrote:flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.
both parties like to flirt. there.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:26 pm
by galapogos
vicvic wrote:
manyu882 wrote: eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
date all of them. you're not in a relationship. no commitment. just be honest. competition doesn't mean it's bad, shows that you're popular and in demand. the girls will have to pull up their socks to get your attention, right?
Image

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:28 pm
by alex
That guy in the pic reminds me of this

http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b346/ ... chebag.jpg

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:29 pm
by vicvic
long way to go! still young padawan. just be honest with women.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:30 pm
by Steph_Parker
if you want to be a player, make sure u have to be a good one.
otherwise, no.

i always like to say...
i like bad boys, but i love good men.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:31 pm
by Weib
Steph_Parker wrote:
Weib wrote:flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.
both parties like to flirt. there.
Do bui buis like to flirt more? :P

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:32 pm
by Sufian
haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:33 pm
by galapogos
Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha
Bryan sure agree...AROOOOO!!!

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:34 pm
by Twxian
yah lor he ish sexpert

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:35 pm
by galapogos
Twxian wrote:yah lor he ish sexpert
ya lor we 2 are the guai guai good boys, so nobody chup us.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:35 pm
by Steph_Parker
Weib wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:
Weib wrote:flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.
both parties like to flirt. there.
Do bui buis like to flirt more? :P
i dunno.

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:36 pm
by Steph_Parker
Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha
a girl should NEVER change for a guy too.
more often than not, its always the girl changing for the guy =(

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:39 pm
by galapogos
Twxian wrote:wah this thread moving very fast....+1
wah that reminded me...checked the bandwidth, now 3.5GB liao...

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:39 pm
by Canuck eh
Listen to the married man.

Seriously, why do you want to make a girl interested in you? You're obviously interested in her, start from there. If you come off well, she'll be interested enough to go out once at least, and build from there.

It ain't rocket science, be yourself, be confident, be attentive and let that person know that you're interested in them. How you do it, depends on your personal style. Just don't go from gazing across the room (with a drink in your hand) to full-blown stalker-mode expressions of love.

The bad boy part I agree with to a degree because they are more interesting and the motivations for the interest may be shorter term.

But seriously, just get out there and risk getting hurt/turned down. Else you'll be 40 and mail-ordering brides or looking to sign up for a government sponsored love and relationship course so they can get above 1.29 or whatever the magic # is

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:40 pm
by Bryan
wah all the pros speaks...

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:40 pm
by galapogos
Canuck eh wrote:Listen to the married man.

Seriously, why do you want to make a girl interested in you? You're obviously interested in her, start from there. If you come off well, she'll be interested enough to go out once at least, and build from there.

It ain't rocket science, be yourself, be confident, be attentive and let that person know that you're interested in them. How you do it, depends on your personal style. Just don't go from gazing across the room (with a drink in your hand) to full-blown stalker-mode expressions of love.

The bad boy part I agree with to a degree because they are more interesting and the motivations for the interest may be shorter term.

But seriously, just get out there and risk getting hurt/turned down. Else you'll be 40 and mail-ordering brides or looking to sign up for a government sponsored love and relationship course so they can get above 1.29 or whatever the magic # is
In other words...don't be like Bert...

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:41 pm
by Twxian
wah sexpert come in liaos....

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:41 pm
by Canuck eh
galapogos wrote:In other words...don't be like Bert...
you named names :evil:

of course, when in doubt, most of life's lessons can be learned from Seinfeld.

And if you believe that...

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:42 pm
by flamekid
galapogos wrote: In other words...don't be like Bert...
oi oi dont pull me in.. i am the idiot... :cry:

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:47 pm
by manyu882
alex wrote:dont think its nice to post pics of her here leh :lol:

www.friendster.com/thebig3

My recent added friend.
wah den u need to work sibei hard. i saw her comments on friendster

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:51 pm
by vicvic
how can you sexpose your brother like that!

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:51 pm
by kuro
sign up under the master

http://stylelife.com/new-year/

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 pm
by vicvic
omg PUA in the house!

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 pm
by Bryan
my advice..have full of loving kindness in u...It will attract everybody...

And regarding tt gal who u like, her lifestyle is not ur style....u will nt be happy with her...Nt to pour cold water but she already liked some1....

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 pm
by vicvic
Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha
can't agree more with you bro

Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:57 pm
by Bryan
Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha
i am a gd guy...so i disagree