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How to make a girl interested in you?

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How to exhibit the good traits in you but at the same time not making yourself sound like some conceited person?

Do you think that talking about my diverse travelling experience will bore the girl to tears?

Any tips to share? :lol:
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lol so cute.
you seem to be really interested in someone right now?
well, be natural, be urself.
talk about COMMON topics.
same similarities or traits.
and make her feel comfortable. some people are just good at working the crowd or making others feel comfortable.

might or might not work, depends on individual.
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Maybe can try sending her gifts and asking for her MSN to chat? Yall got anything in common? Perhaps same class same work etc? Can use that to get close to her too.
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according to my friend

first must be gentleman.

be humourous

den forget about training for 6 pack. these are just pleasing to their eyes. they rather have their bf flat stomach with no pack so can lie . and your chest must be quite big so can treat tt as a pillow.

den must be yourself.(have a mindset tt u r just a normal friend)?

dont be boastful? bring your status down to the same level as the girl.
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manyu882 wrote:according to my friend

first must be gentleman.

be humourous

den forget about training for 6 pack. these are just pleasing to their eyes. they rather have their bf flat stomach with no pack so can lie . and your chest must be quite big so can treat tt as a pillow.

den must be yourself.(have a mindset tt u r just a normal friend)?

dont be boastful? bring your status down to the same level as the girl.
i dun really agree with the 6 pack thingy.
if it's abt physical appearance, face (eyes) then smile, matters more imo.
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alex wrote:How to exhibit the good traits in you but at the same time not making yourself sound like some conceited person?
never brag about the stuffs you're really good at. let her find out for herself.

e.g. you like to play soccer and you're pretty good at it, "hey <girl> wanna come hang out for a drink after my soccer game?" then get her to go earlier to the venue and while she marvels at your playing when waiting
alex wrote:Do you think that talking about my diverse travelling experience will bore the girl to tears?
sure, traveling experiences are fucking fun and all, but don't talk all about facts. honestly (in my opinion that is), i don't know which girl wants to know exactly how many steps it takes to climb up the eiffel tower, or how many slaves have been killed to stack up the Gaza pyramid.

talk more about the feelings involved in the trips, make it lively, interesting. exaggerate a little if you have to. like the time you guys got lost at the cross roads? how did it REALLY felt like? what you guys do to get out of the situation, why you guys did what you did, and how the whole thing felt at the end of the day. it's about stirring up the feelings

just my very humble 2 cents :)
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aiyo, both of you are talking about the same thing.

manyu said forget about training for 6 pack. heh heh.

really depend on individual 1, if she likes you, any lame thing may also seem sweet. heh

but of coz there are 2 cases of changing decision 1.

from dont like to like, this 1 is HARD.
from like to dont like, quite common also.
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lips wrote:aiyo, both of you are talking about the same thing.

manyu said forget about training for 6 pack. heh heh.

really depend on individual 1, if she likes you, any lame thing may also seem sweet. heh

but of coz there are 2 cases of changing decision 1.

from dont like to like, this 1 is HARD.
from like to dont like, quite common also.
eh if from normal friend to like leh
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oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
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Steph_Parker wrote:
manyu882 wrote:according to my friend

first must be gentleman.

be humourous

den forget about training for 6 pack. these are just pleasing to their eyes. they rather have their bf flat stomach with no pack so can lie . and your chest must be quite big so can treat tt as a pillow.

den must be yourself.(have a mindset tt u r just a normal friend)?

dont be boastful? bring your status down to the same level as the girl.
i dun really agree with the 6 pack thingy.
if it's abt physical appearance, face (eyes) then smile, matters more imo.
LOL... eyes i think tell alot of things. eyes are the window to the soul.
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Steph_Parker wrote:oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
tell us more about your critiera then
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Why always say be yourself, be humorous...then clowns will have the hottest chicks lor...

Hahaha, funny right? See? I'm humorous also, how come my gf not Miranda Kerr or Alessandro Ambrosio? :(
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manyu882 wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
tell us more about your critiera then
never ask a girl what they want - in fact they really have no idea about what they want. right hor steph? ^^
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manyu882 wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
tell us more about your critiera then
for me to know, for you to find out.
k kidding.
i dunno how to describe. words can't describe sometimes.
feelings is feelings. hmm.
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galapogos wrote:Why always say be yourself, be humorous...then clowns will have the hottest chicks lor...

Hahaha, funny right? See? I'm humorous also, how come my gf not Miranda Kerr or Alessandro Ambrosio? :(
coz they're faithful to me ma. not to forget adriana lima
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galapogos wrote:Why always say be yourself, be humorous...then clowns will have the hottest chicks lor...

Hahaha, funny right? See? I'm humorous also, how come my gf not Miranda Kerr or Alessandro Ambrosio? :(
......
cuz ur standard is too high.
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vicvic wrote:
manyu882 wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
tell us more about your critiera then
never ask a girl what they want - in fact they really have no idea about what they want. right hor steph? ^^
yes.
ask alr, they will have alot of answers that they can't decide.
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Steph_Parker wrote: for me to know, for you to find out.
k kidding.
i dunno how to describe. words can't describe sometimes.
feelings is feelings. hmm.
don't know say don't know la =x
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vicvic wrote:
manyu882 wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
tell us more about your critiera then
never ask a girl what they want - in fact they really have no idea about what they want. right hor steph? ^^
siao liao. den we boys also say anything de.. go eat.. eat what? anything lo? drink what ?? anything . then really take anything give u drink
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Steph_Parker wrote: yes.
ask alr, they will have alot of answers that they can't decide.
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manyu882 wrote:
vicvic wrote:
manyu882 wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:oh okok =x
just be... yourself, dun be rude, dun be proud, dun be too nice.
be humorous.
wot else.
mmm.
depends on individual la really.
tell us more about your critiera then
never ask a girl what they want - in fact they really have no idea about what they want. right hor steph? ^^
siao liao. den we boys also say anything de.. go eat.. eat what? anything lo? drink what ?? anything . then really take anything give u drink
That's why these can sell mah...
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vicvic wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote: yes.
ask alr, they will have alot of answers that they can't decide.
credits to the great hilary swank
man she's hot.
ahhh.
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Steph_Parker wrote:
vicvic wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote: yes.
ask alr, they will have alot of answers that they can't decide.
credits to the great hilary swank
man she's hot.
ahhh.
Miranda Kerr hotter :oops:
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first things first, get to know her.. if step one don't go through don't think about the rest.

Step 2, if fail find another target, if success then continue to build relationship.
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Weib wrote:first things first, get to know her.. if step one don't go through don't think about the rest.

Step 2, if fail find another target, if success then continue to build relationship.
eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
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manyu882 wrote:
Weib wrote:first things first, get to know her.. if step one don't go through don't think about the rest.

Step 2, if fail find another target, if success then continue to build relationship.
eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
wah how many dicks u got?
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manyu882 wrote:
Weib wrote:first things first, get to know her.. if step one don't go through don't think about the rest.

Step 2, if fail find another target, if success then continue to build relationship.
eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
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lol, some of the advice is tongue in cheek but useful to a certain extent also.

That girl is goddamn cute

Anyway thanks for advice.
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alex wrote:lol, some of the advice is tongue in cheek but useful to a certain extent also.

That girl is goddamn cute

Anyway thanks for advice.
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dont think its nice to post pics of her here leh :lol:

www.friendster.com/thebig3

My recent added friend.
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