How to make a girl interested in you?

vicvic · Post by **vicvic** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:19 pm

manyu882 wrote: eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.

date all of them. you're not in a relationship. no commitment. just be honest. competition doesn't mean it's bad, shows that you're popular and in demand. the girls will have to pull up their socks to get your attention, right?

Post by **Twxian** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:20 pm

wah this thread moving very fast....+1

Steph_Parker · Post by **Steph_Parker** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:20 pm

manyu882 wrote:
Weib wrote:first things first, get to know her.. if step one don't go through don't think about the rest.

Step 2, if fail find another target, if success then continue to build relationship.
eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.

then u can just test the waters.

Weib · Post by **Weib** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:21 pm

flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.

Steph_Parker · Post by **Steph_Parker** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:22 pm

Weib wrote:flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.

both parties like to flirt. there.

Post by **galapogos** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:26 pm

vicvic wrote:
manyu882 wrote: eh if got multiple targets at one time leh.
date all of them. you're not in a relationship. no commitment. just be honest. competition doesn't mean it's bad, shows that you're popular and in demand. the girls will have to pull up their socks to get your attention, right?

alex · Post by **alex** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:28 pm

That guy in the pic reminds me of this

http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b346/ ... chebag.jpg

vicvic · Post by **vicvic** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:29 pm

long way to go! still young padawan. just be honest with women.

Steph_Parker · Post by **Steph_Parker** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:30 pm

if you want to be a player, make sure u have to be a good one.
otherwise, no.

i always like to say...
i like bad boys, but i love good men.

Weib · Post by **Weib** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:31 pm

Steph_Parker wrote:
Weib wrote:flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.
both parties like to flirt. there.

Do bui buis like to flirt more?

Sufian · Post by **Sufian** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:32 pm

haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha

Post by **galapogos** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:33 pm

Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha

Bryan sure agree...AROOOOO!!!

Post by **Twxian** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:34 pm

yah lor he ish sexpert

Post by **galapogos** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:35 pm

Twxian wrote:yah lor he ish sexpert

ya lor we 2 are the guai guai good boys, so nobody chup us.

Steph_Parker · Post by **Steph_Parker** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:35 pm

Weib wrote:
Steph_Parker wrote:
Weib wrote:flirt alittle bit la.. women like to be teased.
both parties like to flirt. there.
Do bui buis like to flirt more?

i dunno.

Steph_Parker · Post by **Steph_Parker** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:36 pm

Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha

a girl should NEVER change for a guy too.
more often than not, its always the girl changing for the guy =(

Post by **galapogos** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:39 pm

Twxian wrote:wah this thread moving very fast....+1

wah that reminded me...checked the bandwidth, now 3.5GB liao...

Canuck eh · Post by **Canuck eh** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:39 pm

Listen to the married man.

Seriously, why do you want to make a girl interested in you? You're obviously interested in her, start from there. If you come off well, she'll be interested enough to go out once at least, and build from there.

It ain't rocket science, be yourself, be confident, be attentive and let that person know that you're interested in them. How you do it, depends on your personal style. Just don't go from gazing across the room (with a drink in your hand) to full-blown stalker-mode expressions of love.

The bad boy part I agree with to a degree because they are more interesting and the motivations for the interest may be shorter term.

But seriously, just get out there and risk getting hurt/turned down. Else you'll be 40 and mail-ordering brides or looking to sign up for a government sponsored love and relationship course so they can get above 1.29 or whatever the magic # is

Bryan · Post by **Bryan** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:40 pm

wah all the pros speaks...

Post by **galapogos** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:40 pm

Canuck eh wrote:Listen to the married man.

Seriously, why do you want to make a girl interested in you? You're obviously interested in her, start from there. If you come off well, she'll be interested enough to go out once at least, and build from there.

It ain't rocket science, be yourself, be confident, be attentive and let that person know that you're interested in them. How you do it, depends on your personal style. Just don't go from gazing across the room (with a drink in your hand) to full-blown stalker-mode expressions of love.

The bad boy part I agree with to a degree because they are more interesting and the motivations for the interest may be shorter term.

But seriously, just get out there and risk getting hurt/turned down. Else you'll be 40 and mail-ordering brides or looking to sign up for a government sponsored love and relationship course so they can get above 1.29 or whatever the magic # is

In other words...don't be like Bert...

Post by **Twxian** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:41 pm

wah sexpert come in liaos....

Canuck eh · Post by **Canuck eh** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:41 pm

galapogos wrote:In other words...don't be like Bert...

you named names

of course, when in doubt, most of life's lessons can be learned from Seinfeld.

And if you believe that...

flamekid · Post by **flamekid** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:42 pm

galapogos wrote: In other words...don't be like Bert...

oi oi dont pull me in.. i am the idiot...

manyu882 · Post by **manyu882** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:47 pm

alex wrote:dont think its nice to post pics of her here leh

www.friendster.com/thebig3

My recent added friend.

wah den u need to work sibei hard. i saw her comments on friendster

vicvic · Post by **vicvic** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:51 pm

how can you sexpose your brother like that!

kuro · Post by **kuro** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:51 pm

sign up under the master

http://stylelife.com/new-year/

vicvic · Post by **vicvic** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 pm

omg PUA in the house!

Bryan · Post by **Bryan** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 pm

my advice..have full of loving kindness in u...It will attract everybody...

And regarding tt gal who u like, her lifestyle is not ur style....u will nt be happy with her...Nt to pour cold water but she already liked some1....

vicvic · Post by **vicvic** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:53 pm

Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha

can't agree more with you bro

Bryan · Post by **Bryan** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 11:57 pm

Sufian wrote:haha.. why u so stressed?

Be yourself lah... never change for a girl. LAter if u change just to court her, difficult to keep up in the future.

When talking, girls want u to listen and actually remember stuffs that they say. Then listen lor.. If u forgetful type, then go home write down lah. Main thing is, if u are a goody2 guy, hahaha....

Through my experience prior to marriage, the bad guy always gets the girls. haha

Don't believe, then look around. Yes the good guys get to go out on dates, but the bad guys get to do all the happening stuff.

Anyone here agrees with me? Haha

i am a gd guy...so i disagree